How to make all your dreams come true! Really!

Make all your dreams come true! Really!

Let me start at the beginning...

Ever find yourself, even now, complaining in words and your thoughts? Let’s start with words and analyze this feature. Words that are coming out of your mouth came from where? They came from your mind and brain, silly! Your speech is manufactured by thoughts. We all agree on this, I believe.

So, you get what you ask for.  What did you expect? You have been complaining about all the stuff you don’t have. So what do you have: all the stuff you don’t have. Let’s look deeper. Why are we complaining? It’s because we’re not expecting things we want. It makes us cranky. It’s that simple!

Alright, don’t believe me? Picture a baby. What does it want? Hunger, love, and/or sleep. When it doesn’t get any of these basic needs it’s going to feel hungry/thirsty, unloved, or tired. So it cries because it doesn’t know how to tell you what it wants. It doesn’t even understand what you are telling it. All it knows is that it wants love, food, water, or sleep and it will get love, food, water, or sleep.

So what interactions does the universe give to the baby? Since the baby is only wanting and desiring these basic needs: The baby complains about all of those desires through crying. The universe feeds into these needs and fetches ways to bring it about. It’s not always quick in this time-based world, but you’re still growing. If you are genuinely feeling that you have something now, then it will instantly manifest for you.

Expect to have everything you desire.

 Let’s break this sentence down so we can understand it better.

·         Expect to have. ..

o   This means that you would be constantly grateful for gaining your desires. Really, who isn’t thankful for what their gaining; especially things they desire.  

·         Everything you desire!

o   This means everything that comes to mind that you believe will bring you happiness. It feels so good to be happy! You need to understand that happiness is a gift from the universe and hopes for you to have it all the time. It wants you to desire things that make you happy, that is why you are designed this way. Why make it hard yourself? Daydream about getting what you want!

Speak what you have because you have what you say you do.

Speak what you have because you have what you say you do and you think what say.

Confess what you’re grateful for to the world as well. Remember!! It can work positively and negatively. Don’t you want a positive, carefree, and happier life? Don’t fool yourself, Of course, you do! It’s alright to share your happiness. Words are affirmations.

 The universe has given you the will that is giving you thoughts and feelings. Of course, it just wants you to thank it for giving you those thoughts of desire that are intended to help you manifest what you want and need. Don’t forget to have a right mindset and always do things you see as right. Be honest with yourself and think it through. Do the right thing in your heart!

If you find yourself searching and reasoning against something you have so many reasons against it already: this is to save a sinking ship of desire that you don’t really want or need it and in deep inside of you; accept that and move on.

Don't let failure be an obstacle for you. Use it to your advantage and figure out how to do it so that you don't fail next time.

Mistakes are mis-stakes. You misplaced your stake of hope in the wrong way to do it, try again and learn from it.

Be happy, don’t worry!

Ace

Let Go of Doubts!

Introduction [skip if you don't care]
So, in the post, I'll be assuming you read the post that frees you from thinking for others and lets you think for yourself! If not, you might want to skim through it HERE.

To begin letting go of those pesky doubts we should first understand why they are there. Doubts are are tips that we are disbelieving. They are there so when we don't believe in something, then we can let it go and work on something we truly believe in. It's kind of like our mind's bodyguard against things it doesn't want to do or trust.
Anything that isn't constant pleasure is probably going to lead to doubts. If we never learn to deal with aforementioned [means: previously said] doubts, then we will always let them lead us away from what we really want. Don't worry though! You can break down this doubtful block of stone and lead yourself into a whole new world of freedom. The useful destruction of unneeded doubts and liberation from them is such a mind-freeing expanse that is within' your reach!
Now that you understand why they are there and how leaving them in your dust can benefit you, let us work on exactly how we do that. If you're not ready now, then you'll never be!

Getting Rid of Doubts
Sure I could tell you about palm therapy or give you a huge list that you don't know what to do with, but I like to keep things simple and understandable. Shall we start with the most obvious? By the way, you can trust links I post. Just press the button on the very top right.

• Relax

• Honestly, I have no idea how this is overlooked so easily. Relaxation is the first thing you should try when attempting to slap those fears around.
• I do recommend meditation because it is simply the most relaxing thing [besides flat-out sleeping]. You can find ways to do that here. Let's say you have already tried that. Meditation isn't always easy and it takes time to develop. You want results now! As quickly and easily as possible!
• So try listening to music? I'm not talking about death metal or those sad sad country songs. In fact, completely ignore music that you usually listen to. Remember those relaxing piano pieces and orchestra music? They were popular for a REASON. What better way to wind down after a day of farming/praying/or slaughtering villagers than to listen to soothing music? Remember: You don't want music that has lyrics [for the most part] or that you know because you, most likely, have attached emotional meaning that isn't going to help you forget the relax.
• There are a plethora [means: excess] of useful relaxation techniques on this grand web of ours! All you have to do is search! 
• Be Aware Why They are There
• I've already touched upon this in the introduction, but I'm not talking about a definition for doubts or the 'scientific' reason doubts are there. I'm talking about your personal reasons why you have them. Ask yourself: Why is this doubt there? What can I do to overcome this? Is this really what I want?
• So, you don't know? You can't even answer the first question? Alright, don't worry. I got you, my friend. This might seem hard, but if you know if this is what you want, then find out how to overcome it. Then... DO IT! More often than not, if you don't know why it is there, then it's because someone else placed it in your head.
• Stop Rationalizing
• But but but: blah blah blah. This is rationalizing. It's making excuses for why or why you shouldn't do something. This can EASILY mess up all of your progress because you have a single 'but it's fine just this one time'. That one time turns in to procrastination as well.
• Let me give you an example. Let's say I'm trying to quit smoking [common in smokers, I hear]. 
• So I get through half the first day, but a friend offers me a cigarette. What do I do? I say to myself: 'Oh, I can smoke just this one and start again tomorrow!' Of course, you could. But what's inevitably [means: impossible to avoid] going to happen tomorrow as well? That's right: Someone else is going to offer you one or you'll see one and say the same thing. 'Oh, just this one'. This is what you should avoid AT ALL costs. You'll almost always regret it later. 
• Do NOT Fear Failure



See how happy he was? (:

• Ever hear of 'The only thing to fear is fear itself'? Theodore Roosevelt had a really good point. The only thing that's going to keep you from your success is the fear of failure. Sure, you may have failed once, twice, or even forty-two times. But who's counting? Just keep your eye on the goal at the end of the road.
• Of course you're going to fail. Don't set yourself up for disappointment. The real power is in persistence [means: not giving up]. Do you think people just HAPPEN to know how to do operate on brains? Do you really think Einstein just thought one day: Hey! E... equals... MC!... SQUARED!!! Be realistic, chump. You've gotta put some effort forth.

Now, absorb this information. Really UNDERSTAND it. Reading does not = understanding. You actually have to think it through and at least try to think of ways to apply it to your life.

Okay, WHAT NOW?

Looking for the next post in this 'series'? It has yet to come.

And that is the end of this post. I appreciate your continued effort at attempting to decipher my horrible writing. Really, I love you... a lot... Too much?

Let's try that again: THANK YOU FOR READING, IT MAKES ME HAPPY!

He who types a lot,

Ace

p.s. [passenger steamer?] I have a facebook. Be my friend? [see my eyes twinkle]

p.p.s [cause I like typing that?] If you find any errors, I'd love to hear about them. Really. :l

Control your Mind Quickly and Easily!

Introduction [skip if you don't care for those]

What better way begin to help those [I, included] self-helpers than to teach them how to REALLY control their mind? If you are like me, or were like me, or ever plan to not be like me, then read on!

You can control your mind, you can literally [I mean it!] do anything you want to do. Sure, you might think I'm just blowing steam to get your attention [cause your a clever one], but I'm NOT! My goal here is to help you get those reigns back! Sure, you could let your subconscious mind keep a hold of them, let other people tell you what you need to be doing, or even try to not have any thoughts. Is this really what you want though?

Essentially, this is a life that isn't yours. If you let your subconscious mind do what it wants: You are on autopilot. If you let people control you: you are a pet! If you try to tune everything out into nothing, you are basically just a paperweight. Do you really want to be any of that? I really hope not. Don't fret, though! I can help. All you have to do is keep those eyes flowing down the paragraphs.


What is holding you back?
I know how much you readers like lists to break things down into easily understood categories, so here we go. I'll start off with what we already know [or so I hope!].

• Letting your subconscious doing what it wants:
• This puts you on autopilot because the subconscious is working from OLD values and beliefs. These may not be yours anymore or these thoughts may not even have been yours in the first place. 
• Letting people control you:
• Have you ever wondered why dogs are so obedient? It's because they are CONTROLLED! They understand that this very well and work it to their advantage. Whereas humans do the same.
• Look at it this way: You're working a job from sun-up to sun-down. Why? Money! You're essentially selling your time for what the 'boss' thinks you are worth. Now, remember the dog? The dog is selling it's time [doing tricks for you] for money [treats]. The dog is fine and happy with this lifestyle. It can not make it outside of that and it knows this. This is exactly like you have been programmed to think. LET IT GO! You are a human and you are capable of finding your own way.
• Tuning everything out and living in a reality that isn't so real:
• All this does is take all those thoughts that separate you from being a dog and ignores them. That isn't reasonable! Use your head! This makes you essentially a paperweight for whatever you are sitting on. Is that really how you want to go through life?

There's many other ways for you to NOT be in control of your mind, but I think you get the point. Just look around you and ask yourself: Why am I doing this? Is this for me? How? Keep asking questions! Y'know how they say smart kids ask questions? The same is true for adults. Just because you asked them as a kid and you THINK you don't have to ask anymore does NOT mean you are done learning. Your mind is a muscle. Exercise it! It'll benefit you.

Alright, now that you've got this far [or scrolled down to the goodies], I believe I might be able to help you help yourself. Lists again? I think so.

How to control your mind [step 1]

• Think for YOURSELF!
• Let us put all the ways we think we got here aside and focus on BEING here. Are you spending your time pleasuring yourself [in the best ways?] and bettering yourself into the person you want to be? If you are like the general population, then you are not. 
• Stop letting other people tell you what to do and push you around! There's a line [however shallow the marking is] between being a push-over who does whatever everyone wants instead of what they want and then there's the other extreme. Being overly aggressive [like a small child] and taking everything from other people, completely disregarding them.
• Pushover help:   Try this for a change: Do what you want. Think about what you want. Is what you're doing what you want? Your wants are important too! In fact, they are, logically, the most important. If one of your wants is to fulfill the wants of others, then DO IT, but do not compromise your own wants to do this. Your wants are probably there because you want to better yourself and please yourself, but if you keep bettering other people and pleasing other people, then you won't ever accomplish ANYTHING! Let people call you selfish, but you know you are not. That's all that matters.
• Overly-Aggressive help: Hey, you know what? Yes, what you want is perfectly fine. BUT YOU HAVE TO EARN THINGS! This is the real world where things are not going to be brought to you constantly. You're an adult [or teenager?] and not a small child. It's okay, though. You never learned how to respect others [and it's benefits!]. That's completely fine! You're realizing that now! All you have to do is think about how you'd feel if someone did what you're doing [stealing for example] to you. You'd be downright annoyed and most likely pissed off to no end. You don't think other people have feelings either? Everyone does. Other people control them. You can too! Use empathy and self-control.
• However you got here [religion aside, please] you are here to keep bettering yourself. Whoever created us or brought us here [we got here somehow] would most likely want us to flourish in every way we know how. However, we hit a dead end and we give up. Just because you can't do it now does NOT mean you can't find other ways to do it! Find another route STOP LETTING YOURSELF BELIEVE YOU CAN'T DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU'VE GIVEN UP!! Why did I capitalize that? Because I want you to remember!

Absorb the Information

I think I'll stop HERE because you need to absorb this information. Yeah yeah, I know you THINK you understand but try applying it to your own life and seeing if it helps. I bet you it will. Just give it a try.

Okay, so you don't think it will? Then at the very least, you've learned what you already know. Let your subconscious mind absorb this information. This is why people take breaks in between reading. Your subconscious mind learns from repetition of your thoughts and actions. If you want change, then you'll have to have the will to do it. 

But of course, I can't write forever [I could, actually, but my fingers would disintegrate]. I'll explain how to get rid of those doubts that you now have due to giving up in the past in my next post. IF YOU CAN'T DO IT, FIND OTHER WAYS TO DO SOMETHING IF WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS FAILING! All failure is doing is leading you farther down into I-can't-do-anything land. Yeah, I make up words.

The Next Step?
Click here:  Let Go of Doubts!
[I write in parts to break it up... Until I can shove all this knowledge in your head with a machine... but I think that machine might be illegal... So I guess this will have to make due]

I wish all the love in the world upon you,

Ace

p.s. [post-stamp] Favorite or bookmark this so you don't forget. Yes, I could use your readership. I really could, but I'm sure you could also use some insight into human nature. I'll help you get through anything and that is my promise.

p.p.s [I'm forgetful] I bracket things because they are my thoughts. I do not silence them. (: